What To Expect

We believe the Mass is our highest form of worship. It is where Catholics gather to praise God, listen to Scripture, pray together, and celebrate the Eucharist. The Mass has been handed down to us since the earliest days of Christianity (see, for example, Justin Martyr’s First Apology ca. 150AD). It began as hearing the Word of God proclaimed in a synagogue, followed by the “breaking of the bread” in secret. After Christianity became legal, these two practices were united in a single service we call the Mass.

The Mass has two main parts:

1. The Liturgy of the Word

In this part of the Mass, we listen to readings from the Bible, hear a homily (sermon), profess our faith, and pray together.

Scripture reminds us:

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” (Psalm 119:105)

2. The Liturgy of the Eucharist

In this part, bread and wine are offered and consecrated. Catholics believe they become the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ. Holy Communion is then distributed.

Jesus said:

“Do this in memory of me.” (Luke 22:19)

The Church teaches:

“The liturgy is the summit toward which the activity of the Church is directed; at the same time it is the font from which all her power flows.” (CCC 1074)

Scripture: Luke 22:19; Acts 2:42
Catechism: CCC 1066–1075

You are welcome simply to observe and pray.

Many visitors wonder: What am I supposed to do?

The short answer is: participate as much as you feel comfortable.

You may notice people:

• Standing
• Sitting
• Kneeling
• Making the Sign of the Cross
• Responding to prayers aloud
• Singing hymns

You are welcome to join in or simply observe.

A good rule of thumb is: feel free to follow along with the congregation if comfortable or simply remain respectfully seated.

No one expects first-time visitors to know everything.

Catholic worship involves the whole person – body and soul. Different postures express reverence, prayer, attentiveness, and worship.

Generally speaking:

• Standing expresses attentiveness and praise.
• Sitting is for listening and reflection.
• Kneeling expresses reverence and prayer, especially during the Eucharistic Prayer.

You are welcome to participate as you are able. If kneeling is uncomfortable or unfamiliar, simply remain seated.

God is far more concerned with the openness of our hearts than perfect choreography.

Scripture says:

“The Lord looks on the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7)

You are welcome to sing, pray, and respond with the congregation as much as you feel comfortable.

You may hear repeated responses such as:

• “And with your spirit”
• “Amen”
• “Thanks be to God”
• “Lord, hear our prayer”

Even quietly listening can be a meaningful way to participate.

Saint Paul encourages believers:

“Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly… singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs.” (Colossians 3:16)

The Mass invites us not to be spectators but participants in prayer.

At every Mass, we hear readings from the Bible—typically from the Old Testament, Psalms, New Testament letters, and one of the Gospels.

After the readings, the priest or deacon gives a homily (reflection) connecting Scripture to everyday life.

If you are visiting for the first time, one of the best ways to participate is simply to listen.

You may find yourself reflecting on questions like:

• What is God saying through this reading?
• What stands out to me?
• How does this connect to my life?

Scripture tells us:

“Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening.” (1 Samuel 3:9)

Near Communion, people may briefly greet those nearby with a handshake, nod, smile, or simple words such as:

“Peace be with you.”

This moment reflects Jesus’ call to reconciliation and Christian unity.

Jesus said:

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you.” (John 14:27)

You are welcome to participate or simply smile and acknowledge those around you.

Catholics believe Holy Communion is the true Body and Blood of Jesus Christ and also a sign of full unity in Catholic faith and sacramental life.

For this reason, non-Catholics and those not prepared to receive are ordinarily asked not to receive Holy Communion.

Please know this is not meant to exclude or embarrass anyone. Your presence here matters deeply to us.

Instead, during Communion you are welcome to:

Remain in Your Pew

You may remain seated or kneeling in quiet prayer.

Come Forward for a Blessing

If you would like, you may join the Communion line and cross your arms over your chest to indicate that you are not receiving Communion. The priest or minister may offer a brief blessing.

You may also simply use this time for silent prayer or reflection.

Jesus says:

“Come and see.” (John 1:39)

Scripture: John 6:51–58; 1 Corinthians 10:17
Catechism: CCC 1324–1419

There is no perfect dress code.

You will likely see everything from jeans to dress clothes depending on the parish, season, or occasion.

We simply encourage people to dress respectfully and comfortably in a way that reflects the importance of worship.

Most importantly: do not let clothing concerns keep you from coming.

You are welcome here.

Absolutely.

No one expects visitors to know all the prayers, responses, or customs.

Even lifelong Catholics are still learning and growing in faith.

You are welcome to:

• Listen quietly
• Follow along when comfortable
• Ask questions afterward
• Simply be present

Faith often begins with curiosity.

Jesus invited people not with pressure, but with an invitation:

“Come and see.” (John 1:39)

Even without receiving Communion, there are many meaningful ways to participate fully:

• Listen attentively to Scripture and the homily
• Join in prayer and singing
• Reflect quietly and pray in your heart
• Participate in standing, sitting, and kneeling as comfortable
• Offer your intentions, hopes, worries, or gratitude to God
• Come forward for a blessing or remain prayerfully present during Communion

Participation at Mass is not about performing every gesture perfectly—it is about opening your heart to God.

The Catechism teaches:

“The desire for God is written in the human heart.” (CCC 27)